Advanced Trust-Building Strategy…

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How to Quickly Build Trust With Customers…

 

In yesterday’s post we discussed that most people don’t do what they say they will do. 

 

We also discussed that keeping your promises will put you ahead of 95% of your competition and build trust.

 

Lastly, we showed a simple 3-step system to ensure that you keep your word.

 

Now, we are going to turbo-charge that advice…

 

Since keeping your commitments is a proven way to build trust, it stands to reason that we would want to make and keep as many commitments as possible as early as we can in the relationship.  Of course, showing up on time is critical for the initial meetings and/or phone calls.

 

Right now you need to think of three or four “promises” that you can make when talking with a customer that will be easy for you to keep.  Depending on the conversation, you simply drop one or two of these commitments into the discussion, and then you fulfill on them after you are done with the conversation.

 

A few examples:

1.      You saw an article in the newspaper or trade journal that is on a topic of interest to your customers.  You get a good original copy of this article and make some copies.  When you are talking with a client ask them if they saw the article about “X” and briefly describe it to them. At the end of the discussion, tell them you will send them a copy… And do it.  (you have built some trust that you do what you say)

2.     You know an event is coming up that is of interest to your clients—say a trade show.  Ask if they are going and tell them you will send them information about the show… Then send it…

3.     As a plus to #2 above, if they aren’t going to attend tell them you will send them an after-action report on what you saw at the event that might be of interest to them. Then do it…

4.     Promise to put them in contact with someone you know that they might benefit from also knowing…

5.     Discuss a great book and send them a copy…

6.     Tell them you will send them a customized proposal and then do it.

7.   Say you will follow up at an exact date and time, write it down and do it.  When you call, if you get a answering machine leave the message that you are calling at the time you said you would call…

8.     You get the idea…think of some of your own.

 

The concept is to pro-actively look for ways to keep your commitments, and to do this as much as possible to build your credibility as someone who follows through.  At the same time, you are also building up a favor bank with the potential client which will invoke the Law of Reciprocity which is one of the fundamental tactics of Influence as taught by Kevin Hogan and other persuasion experts..

 

This may sound simple. It may sound like common sense.  But if you do it, you will be on your own level in most cases.  Because not very many people are willing to go the extra mile.  Always be thinking of ways that you can add value to your customers lives…

 

Tomorrow, I plan to shift gears and switch away from building your business and your assets to using your business as vehicle to protect your personal assets.

 

Stay tuned…

 

Rob

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19 Comments

19 Comments

  1. Dan WaldronNo Gravatar (1 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @3:16 pm

    Nice writing style. I look forward to reading more in the future.

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  2. Bob KauferNo Gravatar (49 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @4:08 pm
  3. Darryl PaceNo Gravatar (66 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @4:27 pm

    Good stuff, Rob. Looking forward to tomorrow’s post.

    Health, Fitness — Darryl Pace
    Fitness Product Review

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  4. Christian HallerNo Gravatar (48 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @4:35 pm

    You’re right on. We send out articles to every client every week or two to keep them up to speed. Clients love it.
    Christian Haller
    Good Food Fast & Easy
    Healthy Italian Recipes

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  5. JJ JalopyNo Gravatar (57 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @6:34 pm

    Cool. This gave me some awesome ideas.

    I’m off to overdeliver!

    Cheers Rob.

    JJ Jalopy.
    is awesome
    and tired

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  6. Sonya LenzoNo Gravatar (30 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @6:38 pm

    I once had a customer tell me that I was the only person in my industry that she had ever met who did what she said she would do! Besides being a great reference(!) it became something I strove even harder to do all the time…it really is something that you have to be very intentional about!
    SunnyMarie
    http://www.sunnymarie.com

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  7. Lynn LaneNo Gravatar (57 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @6:54 pm

    That is so true. The simple things and going the extra mile with always pay big.
    Lynn Lane
    Success Strategies For Life
    Success Today

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  8. Don ShepherdNo Gravatar (44 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @8:33 pm

    an excellent way to set up reciprosity.

    got my wheels turning.

    Don Shepherd

    Central Oregon Camphiker

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  9. jc mackenzieNo Gravatar (48 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @11:31 pm

    Good ideas-show him/her that you care about their needs, that you are looking out for them

    Thanks

    JC
    JCMACKENZIE.COM

    Making money-reviews

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  10. Pam SchulzNo Gravatar (48 comments)  •  May 13, 2009 @11:46 pm

    Great follow-up post on trust building.

    Pam
    Invest in Your Future

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  11. Duane CunninghamNo Gravatar (51 comments)  •  May 14, 2009 @2:19 am
  12. John HoNo Gravatar (86 comments)  •  May 14, 2009 @8:57 am

    Rob,

    Good suggestions as to how to build values for the clients and prospects, triggering the Law of Reciprocity !

    John Ho
    Numerology Expert Helps Understanding Personality for Better Influence & Persuasion (WordPress Blog)
    Numerology Expert Daily Numeroscope (Vox Blog)
    Numerology Expert Helps Understanding Personality for Better Influence & Persuasion (Money Page)

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  13. Yann Vernier - ProfitsTactics.comNo Gravatar (38 comments)  •  May 14, 2009 @4:29 pm

    Proactively looking for commitments we can keep? What an excellent strategy. This is a very useful list of ideas on how business owners can build trust naturally.

    All the best,
    Yann
    Making Money on the Internet (Honestly) = Business Strategies + Success Mindset | Resources at ProfitsTactics.com

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  14. Anthony LemmeNo Gravatar (41 comments)  •  May 14, 2009 @5:54 pm

    This is good stuff. I like the idea of a favor bank, not that that is the intention but it is just putting “good energy” out there. What comes around goes around. Similar to karma but more in a practical sense.

    Anthony
    http://www.anthonylemme.com
    The Most Powerful Personal Growth and Mind Develpment Tool on Earth

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  15. Lisa McLellanNo Gravatar (90 comments)  •  May 14, 2009 @6:38 pm

    I love the proactive stuff. Excellent ideas for getting customers and keeping customers. I like the way you suggest we try to “add value to our customer’s lives.” That is perfect.

    Lisa McLellan, Babysitting Services – Babysitters, Nannies, and Au-pairs

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  16. Steve ChambersNo Gravatar (103 comments)  •  May 15, 2009 @12:45 am

    Great advice and great ideas.

    Steve Chambers, The Sales Expert

    Sales Eagles – Sales Coaching for high flyers

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  17. Pat BeckerNo Gravatar (40 comments)  •  May 17, 2009 @5:24 pm

    Good plan – again I can see how this applies to all relationships.

    Pat
    Internet Dollars for Business Owners

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  18. David PowerNo Gravatar (42 comments)  •  May 18, 2009 @5:51 pm

    Love the follow up on trust…opens your mind for sure!!!

    Thanks
    David Power’s Hour

    Expert in Medical Hypnosis, Success Thinking and Practical Parenting

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